I've been thinking a lot lately about the consequences of being a servant and what a servant needs from it's servant-leaders. I've spent 12 out of the last 14 years being involved in the servant-leader category as a youth pastor. Since God's redirecting in my life that I have been trying to follow, I have found myself in a total servant capacity working at Costco in both the Marketing and Membership departments.
So I was thinking the other day about a teammates insight's into my work life about what I'll call a "passion to serve". She described about how early on how fired up I was to take care of member's needs and issues and go the extra mile at the drop of a hat. "But now," she states, " "after a few months you became just like the rest of us: tired, beat up, and a bit more skeptical."
Really? Me? Does it show that easily and quickly? Ouch.
How quickly did the metamorphosis happen? Why did I turn out just like everybody else when I really wanted to be a cut above...a leader by example...the poster boy for servanthood?
Here is a few bullet point thoughts about servanthood and it's consequence in my life:
- Being a servant is hard work (especially if it is basically your job description)
- It's quickly overlooked by those you report to for those
- passion quickly fades unless stoked and encouraged
- a servant's spirit can quickly turn into a begrudging duty if not modeled by your team/community of workers/superiors and/or overall peer attitude/collective mindset
- It's draining emotionally, spiritually, relationally, and physically
- It takes great sacrifice to live/work this way (you have to sacrifice time, energy, and personal resources
- recognize the difficult task/job/ministry of serving continually
- ask questions out of care, concern and empathy
- communicate encouragement and support (both holistically and practically - How can I help you?)
- Champion the everyday task of serving (just b/c it's your "job" doesn't mean I don't need a pat on the back for doing that job faithfully and with excellence). Make this a personal point of contact so they know you notice the job they do - day in and day out
- Champion the over and above, go the extra mile acts of service that a person does (share this communally)
Now I must change and practice what I blog.
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